Christ’s Love is a Choice!

[Reposted from March 2012, with minor edits]

sketch of jesus praying in the garden of gethsemane

Let this cup pass from me…

And He withdrew from them about a stone’s throw, and He knelt down and began to pray, saying, “Father, if You are willing, remove this cup from Me; yet not My will, but Yours be done.” (Luke 22:41-42)

Jesus prayed this prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane on the Mount of Olives, outside Jerusalem, just a few hours before his arrest leading to crucifixion.  Jesus knew the torture and death He was facing.  He knew the level of rejection coming from the very people whom He came to save.  He knew the full measure of sin of the entire race of mankind to be placed on Him as He suffered.

“Father, if You are willing, remove this cup from Me!”

Jesus also knew He was born into the race of mankind for this purpose.  He knew the love that the Father has for us.  Jesus fully lived out the Father’s love toward us, during His time on this earth.  Jesus knew that it was only through His torturous death that mankind could be redeemed from Adam’s covenant of slavery to the kingdom of darkness, and restored to right relationship with God.

“Yet not My will, but Yours be done.”

Can you hear the agony of His prayer?  Can you hear the passion of conflicting desires?  Can you hear the choice…the moment of decision…of choosing one desire as a higher priority than the other? Can you hear His love…love for the Father…love for us?

In this prayer we hear the competing desires of Jesus in His moment of agonizing decision.  Jesus came for this purpose…yet still had a decision to be made as He stood at the edge of action.  Jesus walked His entire life in perfect submission to the Father’s will…yet still had to choose the will of the Father at a critical moment.  Jesus completely loves both us and the Father…yet still had to make a deliberate choice of sacrificial love being a deeper desire, a higher priority, than self-preservation.

Through this prayer we are granted insight into Christ’s private thoughts and prayers.  I tend to think of Jesus as simply being at one with the Father…as not having to put any effort into that oneness beyond simply being who He is.  Not so!  Jesus had to make daily choices and decisions between competing desires, just as I do…except He always chose the highest priority based on His deepest desire, to do the will of the Father.

This realization makes His gift yet more precious to me.  He had a choice!  Just as God respects our choices and holds our free will sacred, Jesus also has a free will and the ability to choose.  Prophetic fulfilment and the eternal destiny of mankind relied on one man’s choice, yet the Father trusted Jesus to choose.  He could have chosen to forego the cross…but He didn’t.

Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends. (John 15:13)

Not only was it a free choice, but it was also an extremely difficult choice.  We hear the agony in His words!  This was something Jesus desperately did NOT want to do!  And yet, even more than He did not want to face the cross, He DID want to fulfill His purpose in doing the will of the Father to redeem us.

This is sacrificial love!  If it were an easy decision, it would not be sacrificial and would not demonstrate the same depth of love.

Jesus did not choose to die because He wanted death.  He chose to die because, although He desperately wanted to live, He wanted more to fulfill the Father’s will in redeeming us from the kingdom of darkness.

Competing desires…deep, deep desires…mutually exclusive choices…where one must be chosen over the other…and Jesus knew which desire was deepest.


What passion drives your daily choices?


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6 thoughts on “Christ’s Love is a Choice!

  1. You are looking at this text in a way that I love to do when I read God’s word–immerse myself in the experience of the person I’m reading about, Joe. This gave you such profound insight into Jesus’ feelings and the huge sacrifice he was willing to take for us. Thank you for this post and the meaning that it settles in my heart and mind today, my friend!

    • Yes, we get so much more from scripture when we take the time to really absorb what we’re reading, don’t we?

      Too often on familar passages, we whiz thru and see exactly what we’ve always seen. I love it when the Holy Spirit checks me to read something a little closer and gain fresh insight!

      Thank you, Beth!

    • Selfishness is such an interesting concept, isn’t it?

      Loving, nurturing and caring for ourselves is a very healthy thing and necessary for our overall sense of well-being. It is also essential for loving and ministering to others. If we haven’t cared for ourselves we won’t have the resources to care for others.

      Yet, when we speak of selfishness we don’t usually mean this sort of healthy self-love. We usually mean an unhealthy pursuit of fulfillment by unhealthy means…a distractedness from our primary goals and from pursuit of our deepest desires…an attempt to find fulfillment in something other than our relationship with God and care for others.

      Thank you for sharing this perspective, Dan!

  2. What passion?

    I hate waste, and we live in a world that casually murders love.

    Death may be stalking my footsteps, but I’m going to fight every step of the way for decency, fair play, and life.

    At the turn of the new year, people were talking about their words for 2014. I chose ‘composure’.

    No more. Now it’s ‘ferocity’. My back’s to the wall, physically. But not my soul.

    I won’t yield, and I will outlast the very fires of hell. I’ve seen enough killing. This is the day to save, and love, and protect.

    • “This is the day to save, and love, and protect.”

      Yes, well stated, Andrew!

      Your comment reminded me of Dyllan Thomas’ poem “Do not go gentle into that good night.”

      God bless you, my friend. Keep fighting!

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